June 14, 2016 at 12:21 pm
Interesting analysis. I would suspect we’d find them clustered in certain communities too.
Personally, my church has a large cohort of 20somethings. Many of them are very serious Christians. I suspect a number of virgins among them. This is the only church I’ve ever attended where I hear people talk about having actually waited until marriage to have sex. These women are mostly thin and reasonably attractive, but also plain in appearance. In part it’s because they’re not making much effort to make themselves look good. Nor do I see them acting flirtatious or otherwise showing guys that they’d welcome an approach. Among singles, the ratio is heavily skewed female. The only downside is that I’m in a big city, so the women have a career orientation.
If you’re a quality younger man with game, I think my church would be a good place to find someone to marry.
Like I’ve said before, see its not enough that a woman is “thin and reasonably attractive”. No, that is too plain and boring. She needs to be HOT! While this commenter doesn’t explicitly say HOT, it is very much implied. The women aren’t making an effort to make themselves look good, yet at the same time they are thin and reasonably attractive. Flirtatious? See now, if women do that though they run the risk of coming off as slutty or too forward. Its pretty much damned if you do, damned if you don’t with these guys because they want fried ice.
And oh dear, these women don’t show guys that they would welcome an approach. Yet these men are too afraid to take the risk and ask them out. Its like middle school dance where the boys are lined up on one wall and the women on another, both afraid to make a move. Don’t they understand that if they want a virgin woman, that also comes with inexperience and perhaps not as much confidence as a woman who is not a virgin. So, she will be more shy, timid, not sure how to speak up for herself when she sees a man she wants. Men need to take the risk of approaching. Scary, I know, but if they are afraid of what appears to be the best weeded out wholesome, Christian girls, they aren’t going to be much of a protector of their virgin bride. Women can sense fear a mile away. That is another reason why they might not have their “welcome” face on. Maybe she just isn’t into you (because of sensing fear).