This is a decent article by a feminist talking about the values of homemaking and how feminists have really let women down by not preparing women to be mothers.
The author says, “For many women, their journey will naturally lead them to a period of stay in the home, caring for children. Whether that time is only a few months, or for several decades, they need to be prepared. They need to be given the skills they need to succeed and they need to be taught that their work is valuable.” It is no surprise though when feminism is not really focused on helping women be and grow as women (despite their claims), but rather turning women into men. So, of course maternal preparation has been neglected.
Further, “We then wonder why, when these girls become women who turn into mothers, they suffer from depression, anxiety and struggle to find a sense of self or identity. Are we truly helping women get ahead, or are we instead setting them up for a future of self doubt and a sense of failure?”
Indeed the fact that women will most likely become mothers at some point is often swept under the rug. Its assumed we are just suppose to know what to do, yet motherhood can easily feel like the most unnatural natural experience out there. Although maybe it only feels so unnatural because we are raised to be men from a very young age. From a secular standpoint, there virtually is no preparation. To get that preparation you have to enter the world of the godlies and that can be a whole other anxiety inducing experience when you are not raised in that world and enter as an outsider.
For those interested they can read the rest of the article I linked to in the start as there are some other good morsels from what seems like a reasonable feminist.
For now, I want to turn the attention over to what a batshit crazy feminist looks like via these facebook comments in response to this article. They are written by a woman I loosely knew many years ago. Brace yourself as these are by far the most nasty remarks I have seen a woman write about her husband and to the manosphere’s credit totally justifies a lot of the stuff they write.
I don’t want to go all RPW and start ruminating about people I kinda know in real life, but DAMN! I have no sympathy or “benefit of the doubt” for this woman as I have watched her for years publicly talk shit about her husband and it looks like it is all coming to a head now. This is the same woman who goes on tear after tear over President Trump as well (as if you wouldn’t have guessed). If ever someone deserves to be divorced, alone and bitter, it is her. It sounds like she is gearing herself up for divorce. Going “xena warrior princess” she is about to bring down the axe, the hammer. She is using her real name to say all these things publicly and her idolized career involves heavy community involvement. I have doubts she is even as “high earning” as she says she is based on what I know. No shit, the more you put in a career the worse it gets at home. ARGH!!! You have to pick one and she clearly values her supposedly “high earning” career over the husband and children.
I can’t even begin to start with this part….
This reignites my fire against feminism and what it does to women (I’ve been burnt out on the topic for awhile). Although, I wonder if this a bit of a chicken and egg riddle. Did feminism cause her to be this crazy or did her crazies make feminism the evil it appears to be? Crazy women or control freak women seeking to dominate have been around since the dawn of time and they filter through to all ideologies as I have discovered with traditionalism (a more discreet type of crazy though). What makes women this angry is a deeper problem than whatever ideology they take up to exacerbate their crazies.