Over the years I have seen advice given by red pill women and some men that the trick to seduce and keep you man is to wear sexy lingerie. They write about it as if its a fail proof way to win over your man. If you disagree with this or say your husband doesn’t care for lingerie, you are quickly shamed and made out to be a prude who has no interest in turning on her man. What man wouldn’t like lingerie??!!! It is just nuts to these lingerie fanatics that they can’t even fathom men like that could exist or at least not take to it favorably.
With that in mind, this headline jumped out at me:
Backfired?! How could that be? The Red Pillers swear by lingerie.
Here are the details:
She wanted to eclipse Camilla not only with her dress but also what she wore underneath it. She knew exactly what she had in mind as, earlier in the day, she had slipped into Harrods’ lingerie department.
Now she stood in front of her own full-length dressing room mirror, gazing at her reflection. The exotic lingerie she had bought that afternoon was more daring than her usual ensemble – briefer, naughtier, more provocative. This was her desperate, possibly naive, gamble to rekindle the all-but-extinct sexual passion in her marriage.
She was realistic about the competition. Camilla may have been 14 years older than she was, but Diana knew the seasoned Mrs Parker Bowles had a comfortably bosomed allure that Charles, apparently, found irresistible.
At that moment, as she would tearfully relate the following day to a confidante, the prince looked in, surveyed his lingerie-clad wife up and down and declared witheringly, ‘You look ridiculous.’
The close friend, an intimate of Diana who has never spoken out before, recalls her despair at being dismissed so coldly. ‘Those three words shattered her,’ says the confidante. ‘They changed the whole momentum of the evening.’
So, there you have it –a notable example of how lingerie is not the magical savior of relationships.